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Phew! It has not been easy so far, hosting the Iraqi lady at Real Women Online. It has also been fun and informative and exasperating :) I agree I was caught a little off-guard, since I was not expecting Zaineb to post for atleast another week or so. I realized something was up when I went to RWO as usual in the morning and saw there were 14 other people online with me. Of course, that was just the beginning. By the end of yesterday, we had 4000 unique visitors, 14000 page views, 6700 views on Zaineb’s post, over 240 comments (after I deleted more than 20, mind you - Ashwini deleted some too) and 30 users registered in one day.
I expected response for an Iraqi woman expressing herself online, but this was something hugely unexpected. For the most part, it has been a good learning experience - if all this helps make even a little positive difference in someone’s life, I will consider all this completely worth it. If this makes a few more women come out and speak up and be heard, I will go through everything gladly all over again :)
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Let me be the first to say — B R A V O ! ! !! :beam:
Posted by: Yazad at June 28, 2003 10:05 AM
Thanks, Yazad - trust me, we are still in the initial stages now - we haven’t been noticed much yet. Once the nuts really start pouring in, that is when Ashwini and I are going to need elephant-thick skins and the support of all of you :beam:
Posted by: Shanti at June 28, 2003 11:11 AM
She definitely has a different point of view than us. Her article echoes what Thomas Friedman has been saying in many articles, for example Bad Planning. I would have joined the discussion at RWO, but there is a crowd alread there. But this is terrific, getting a first hand report from Iraq. You should get her to write regularly.
Posted by: JK at June 28, 2003 11:11 AM
Since I have a unisex name, can I pretend to be a woman and write for RWO? :p
Posted by: MadMan at June 28, 2003 11:52 AM
JK, I understand what you said about the crowd - it almost scares me to think of what might become of our little community :) She is going to be a regular contributor from now on. We also have another woman lined up, an older woman who used to teach at a local university. Hopefully we will hear from her soon and it will be a different perspective.
MadMan, I think your real name is unisex, but your handle ain’t :tongue3:
Posted by: Shanti at June 28, 2003 1:09 PM
Shanti, It is great that the little community is getting big exposure. You can use this page hits to present the real image of India as well, and not the ones that the Roys and Bidwais present.
Posted by: JK at June 28, 2003 1:43 PM
I think that is what the Blog Mela is going to be all about, JK. I think the mirror that we put up on RWO is going to show people from all over the world the we are all a pretty diverse bunch and some of us write pretty good too :)
Posted by: Shanti at June 28, 2003 2:53 PM
HAHAHA…!! This is a classic case of Foot In Mouth…
What exactly were you expecting that woman to write? Bush is my hero??
Well I am really glad that you got to hear the real sentiment, so now lets stop the talk of “liberating iraqis” shall we?
Posted by: at June 28, 2003 2:55 PM
Wow, isn’t it easy being an ass while posting anonymously! I was not expecting anyone to say anything. At least I am not afraid to give a forum to someone I might not agree with and let her speak without censoring a thing. What have you done lately, Mr. I-won’t-give-my-name-coz-I-am-a-fricking-coward ?
Posted by: Shanti at June 28, 2003 3:06 PM
Oh missy, please spare me the I gave a forum to someone. Its a pure unadulterated load of bullshit…!!!
I remember reading the fuss you created during the war when some readers were against your views. The thing is now that you have done a classic Foot In Mouth, you have got no choice but to say that you are giving Zainab a forum to express her views.
Posted by: at June 29, 2003 12:25 AM
If it makes you feel better, I knew what the tone of Zaineb’s post was going to be even before she published it - I was corresponding with her before she started writing. Oh, and if I want to, I can stop hosting her - I will not!
Oh anyways, just shut the fuck up till you have the guts to post under your own name. Whatever I said, I said as me - I am not hiding from anyone or anything - like poor, wittle, you are doing right now! Scared of the big, bad right-wing wolves, are you! Whatever I post on my blog is my wish and I will say I am a fricking saint on here if I feel like it. If you want to go against that, get our own fricking blog and denounce me to hell. It might bring some fun back into your pathetic life.
Posted by: Shanti at June 29, 2003 8:54 AM
oh ok i know you are from the “Poor and Opressed is Exotic” group. As i look at it you are treating Zainab as a show piece, it somehow consoles your soul that you now that you have wrecked her country, you are helping her air her views. oh my… its ok if the army of my country went and fucked her country upside down and people have to starve, but you know what we restored democracy…!! how nice…
Whats in the name? it could anything Rahul Seth, Mathias Schmidt, Salma Qureshi, Anita Sorensen, Raul Ramirez, Zhao Qiang or 0x372B9 etc. etc.
Is it going to change my views? No.
What is more important, my views or my name?
Posted by: at June 29, 2003 10:34 AM
Well, dumbass - it might help you to know (of course, here I am assuming you can actually read) I am not an American! I am an Indian! clears that up for you?
Anyways, be a man (or a woman) and post under your real name, or I will have to use my evil powers and simply zap your messages from now on. You are beginning to bore me.
Posted by: Shanti at June 29, 2003 1:03 PM
What exactly are your views “June 29”? Apart from making cheap shots and dropping general platitudes, that is.
Posted by: Yazad at June 29, 2003 1:05 PM
I see that members of the homo sapiens moronus species are making their appearance. :evil:
Posted by: MadMan at June 29, 2003 3:34 PM
Yaz and MadMan, looks like we are going to have fun on my blog again. It has been so long, it might actually be worth it. I am not banning anyone anymore :beam:
Posted by: Shanti at June 29, 2003 3:40 PM
Dear Dumbass No-name,
Here’s another piece of ammo for your paranoia: I was the one who nagged, uh, asked Salam to get an Iraqi woman to blog. Shanti can confirm this. Since I am a Jew, you can blame it all on the evil filthy Zionists.
Does that satisfy you??
Now go back under your rock.
Posted by: Diana at June 29, 2003 6:51 PM
Shanti, congrats to getting your own pet troll.:beam:
Posted by: JK at June 29, 2003 7:41 PM
Diana, you leader of the vast “jooish” conspiracy!
JK, thanks - I have a feeling this troll is an old one coming back, since he was probably missing us, Awwww!
Oh, btw - 100 cheers for Diana for nagging, er requesting Salam into submission, till he decided to dump an Iraqi woman on us to blog around :beam:
Posted by: Shanti at June 29, 2003 8:10 PM
Shanti and Ashwini… tip of the hat to both of you for getting the Iraqi woman to blog.
And I don’t think you should worry too much about anonymous flame throwers.
Posted by: Sameer at June 30, 2003 12:35 AM
Thanks, Sameer :) and get ready for a surprise in her second post :beam:
Posted by: Shanti at June 30, 2003 7:01 AM
You mean she’s coming back?????
:shocked:
Posted by: button at June 30, 2003 11:03 AM
Button, she is coming back and has specifically requested that the comments be turned on - seems like she is having as much fun as I am reading them :) We have a winner on our hands :beam:
Posted by: Shanti at June 30, 2003 12:21 PM